Headset replacement (wired) with Modular helmet 2nd question

[Bakon]

Whats everyone using now for headset replacement? Wired. 2014 CVO Limited. 
Harley sets last me about 2 years before they seem to fall out. Either a speaker or the connector, or the cord....Not upset with them just wondering if anyone using a better one.

#2...Or a smaller than HD speaker for headset. My Shoei helmet (NEOTEC II) has a slightly smaller ear placement hole than the Harley headset. Requiring me to rig up some Velcro and play around putting helmet on. Wife has an Aria but hole size is perfect for Harley headset.

[Bakon]

did some measuring, Harley headset speaker is 54mm. Neotec ear opening 42mm...looking at JM set

[chaos901]

I use J&M, used to install the headsets myself but now I find it better to order the helmet from J&M with the headset already installed.